In fact, throughout the process from when two people first met and fell in love until they got married, both of them were very compatible. But why is it that many couples who were very happy before marriage and should have had a more perfect marriage after marriage ended up with their feelings becoming increasingly distant, and even reaching the point of emotional breakdown? There must be some reasons for this.

1. Lack of mutual tolerance
   Couples’ companionship is a kind of art, but many people do not know how to handle it properly; thus, eventually, it leads to the breakdown of the marriage. When couples are together and encounter conflicts on the journey of companionship, they do not understand, tolerate, or forgive each other. They either curse or belittle the other person’s dignity. Such a marriage will eventually reach the point of emotional breakdown.
   
2. Lack of loyalty in the relationship
   One of the very important reasons for the breakdown of a marriage is that one of the partners fails to maintain integrity and is unfaithful to the relationship. As long as either one of the spouses does something wrong, something that involves infidelity, such a marriage is unlikely to last very long. Even if it seems that they don’t care on the surface and reconcile, the cracks will still form. It can be said that such a marriage will eventually come to an end sooner or later.
3. Infertility after Marriage
   Although marriage is not primarily about having children, the current social environment is still not very accommodating towards “DINK” families (those without children). In reality, there are still many people who consider having children to be of great importance. If a couple has been married for many years but still cannot have children, they will inevitably think about ending their marriage and seeking someone who can continue the family line for their offspring. Whether it’s a man or a woman, they may end up getting divorced because they are unable to fulfill their dream of having children.
4. Cold and Hot Violence
   In marital life, when couples are together, communication serves as the bridge. If two people are together and one of them constantly uses cold or hot violence on the other, the result is either a cold war or physical violence… Such a marriage will eventually lead to parting ways; no one can bear it. Our loved ones use violent behavior towards us; whether it’s cold violence or hot violence, it’s something that is extremely unacceptable.
   
5. Principle-based Mistakes
   In a crowd of people, not a single one would agree that their partner makes some principle-based mistakes. For instance, taking drugs every day and gambling constantly. These principle-based mistakes can not only completely ruin a person’s life, but also lead to the loss of property, making a family destitute. Therefore, if either one of the partners develops these two bad habits, such a marriage won’t last long.
6. Family Conflicts
   In fact, many couples lived a happy life during their dating stage. Since they spent most of their time together, their lives were quite harmonious. However, after getting married, they would encounter more family problems, such as conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and family conflicts. And many couples are not good at handling such conflicts. Gradually, this affects their relationship and leads to the breakdown of the marriage.
7. Inadequate sexual harmony between partners
   Throughout a lifetime, the most inevitable aspect for a couple is their sexual life. This is a crucial link in maintaining a marriage and forms the foundation for its happiness or unhappiness. If the sexual life between two people is not harmonious, their physical needs cannot be met, and their psychological needs will also remain unfulfilled. Therefore, many couples, due to an unharmonious life, eventually end up in a situation of mutual dissatisfaction and separation.
   
8. Great disparity in family background
   Although the idea of “matching families” is an outdated notion, it is indeed very important. Especially for wealthy or powerful families, they tend to look down upon those without money or influence; this is a very sad thing for a marital life. When two people are together, they will inevitably encounter many conflicts due to family background, ideological differences, and daily interactions, eventually becoming strangers.
9. Lack of Emotional Connection
   There are many couples where, perhaps due to the intervention of their parents, two people without emotional connection end up getting married together. Although the man and the woman are married and have a marital relationship, they actually have no emotional connection. When encountering problems and conflicts, they will not be able to tolerate each other.
10. The marriage ends in failure and disappointment
    “Like birds in the same tree, when disaster strikes, they fly apart.” This is the most appropriate metaphor to describe a marriage. Indeed, when two people live together, if they start out as a couple engaged in a business venture, doing a business together; one day, if their business fails and they go bankrupt, that would be the time when they divorce.
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